Friday - July 10 , 2026
READING
The first service one owes to others in a community involves listening to them. Just as our love for God begins with listening to God’s Word, the beginning of love for others is learning to listen to them. God’s love for us is shown by the fact that God not only gives God’s Word but also lends us God’s ear. . . . We do God’s work for our brothers and sisters when we learn to listen to them." ——-Dietrich Bonhoeffer
WORDS OF HOPE
Listening. I have come to realize that listening is a skill. It is learned. I liken it to learning any skill. It takes desire, practice, patience and control. And having a good role model helps.
This of course, is not meant to be confused with hearing. We hear lots of things. We may be sitting in a coffee shop and hear a conversation near us. When I was young, I was taught it was rude to listen in on such conversations. Listening means not just hearing the words, but as we listen, we pay attention and interpret.
We must have a desire to listen to others. It means not just hearing what they’re saying, but looking for the meaning, the emotion, the soul that they are expressing to us. In the current age, we have far too many people who do not care to listen more or even to hear words of others who do not see things the way we do.
And even if we have the desire to listen to others, we must practice listening. I was a middle school teacher for 25 years. It took me a while to get to a point where I was able to truly listen to my students. I had the desire; but I did not possess the skill. It took a while for that to develop. And one of the things that I realized was, I couldn’t just passively listen but I also needed to ask when I did not understand. And while we may not realize that when we’re doing it, that asking conveys our desire to listen. It gives an indication that we are truly listening. And why we may think we should listen quietly. It is important to understand what we are being told.
I would argue that patience is also a learned skill, and that while we are practicing listening, we must also be learning and practicing patience. If we do not already have some patience built up this can make it even more difficult to listen well. Practicing patience starts, I believe, with conscious effort. We let someone in line in a traffic jam. We let someone ahead of us who has fewer items than we have in the grocery line; etc.
When listening to others, truly listening in order to absorb, interpret, and feel what the other person is trying to communicate, we need to exercise control. It is too easy to jump in with suggestions, advice, or interpretation before we have heard everything, before we have had a chance to truly absorb what we are being told.
In talking about community Bonhoeffer makes it clear that listening is something we owe the community and which brings us into community with others. Listening to God‘s Word allows us the chance to integrate that Word into our life. And it further gives us the opportunity to integrate that word into our actions within our communities. Listening to others is indeed God‘s work.
PRAYER
Great Creator, we thank you for listening to our prayers and supplications. We ask you to help us develop the skills necessary to be effective listeners to others so that we may learn to love them and to include them in our communities. Amen
DEVOTION AUTHOR

Weber Baker
Order of Saint Francis and Saint Clare
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