Wednesday - October 14, 2026
SCRIPTURE
Exodus 23:2
“You shall not follow a majority in wrongdoing.”
WORDS OF HOPE
There are several stories in scripture about characters who act like bullies. Perhaps the clearest example is Goliath, who repeatedly taunts, insults, and intimidates the Israelites, challenging them to send someone to fight him. His enormous size and threatening words are intended to make them feel powerless. Goliath is an example of an individual bully.
A form of bullying that receives less attention is group bullying. In Scripture, Joseph’s brothers are jealous of him, mock him, strip off his special robe, throw him into a pit, and sell him into slavery. The story is especially powerful because Joseph is isolated and outnumbered. His brothers use their collective power against someone who cannot defend himself. Eventually, they choose to sell him rather than kill him.
Bullying can become especially destructive when a group turns against one person. Jealousy, resentment, and the desire to belong can turn ordinary conflict into cruelty. Bullying is easy to recognize when one person hurts another, but it can become more troubling when it becomes a group activity. One person makes a cutting remark, someone laughs, another adds to the story, and others remain silent. Before long, people who might never have acted so cruelly alone have become part of the crowd.
Why does this happen? People may join in because they want to belong, fear becoming the next target, or simply don't know what to say. Sometimes silence feels safer than standing alone. Yet silence can have consequences. When no one objects, the bully may see silence as acceptance. Laughter becomes encouragement, and the audience becomes part of the bully's power.
I recall times sitting around a table when someone begins talking about a person who isn’t there. The first comment is unkind, someone laughs, and another adds something even more hurtful. Soon, the conversation takes on a life of its own. Then someone quietly says, “I don't think we should be talking about her this way.”
Something changes!
One voice has interrupted the crowd and reminded everyone that a human being is on the other side of their words. Most importantly, that person has shown that courage can be contagious, too. Just as cruelty can invite others to join in, one person's kindness can give others permission to stop.
Today’s scripture warns us about the danger of simply following the crowd. Paul offers us an entirely different way of living: “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves. Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others.” (Philippians 2:3–4)
Perhaps the question is not simply, “Am I the bully?” but “What happens because I am standing in the crowd?” Am I laughing when I should be silent? Silent when I should speak? Do my words make someone smaller so others and I can feel bigger? Or will I step outside the crowd and stand beside the person being diminished?
On this Bullying Prevention Day, let’s remember that Jesus modeled a community where worldly metrics—like power, status, and appearance—hold no value. Instead, every person is treated with the dignity of a child of God. Living out this faith requires everyday courage. Sometimes it looks like speaking up to say, “That’s not right!” Sometimes it is the silent resistance of refusing to laugh along. And often, it is the simple, life-giving act of extending hospitality to the isolated: “Come sit with me.”
The crowd may carry numbers, but one compassionate person refusing to go along carries the very presence of Christ.
PRAYER
God, give me the courage not to follow the crowd when the crowd is causing harm. Help me recognize the person who is being pushed aside, mocked, or diminished, and give me the compassion to move toward them. May my words, my silence, and my actions reflect the love of Christ and remind others that every person is precious in your sight. Amen.
DEVOTION AUTHOR
David Sims, Deacon
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