Friday - October 9, 2026
Modern Lesson
“If you want to identify me, ask me not where I live, or what I like to eat, or how I comb my hair, but ask me what I am living for, in detail, ask me what I think is keeping me from living fully for the thing I want to live for.”
― Thomas Merton
Words of Hope
Thomas Merton, a Trappist monk, was a most thoughtful interpreter of God‘s word. While he does not cite a specific section of the Bible in the above quote, he does express something that, for me, is it the very heart of Jesus’s message.
He is dealing here with the external in the first part of his statement. These are the things we typically ask someone when we first meet them. Where do you live? Do you know of any good restaurants around? Where do you get your hair done? (Those of you who have met me know this last question is one you never need fear I will ask.)
But then Merton says you should ask him what it is he lives for and what stops him from living fully for the thing for which he wants to live. And there’s an implication here for all of us.
Because in order for Merton to to be identified by what it is he’s living for and for what stops him from doing that very thing, it means he must have examined that within himself. It means he has done the necessary reflection on his life, on the things he lives for, and for the things that stand in his way. Because only then can he look at someone and say “ask me about these things, I’m ready to tell you”.
As a Trappist monk we know that at least a good part of what he lived for revolved around a strict obedience to the rule of Saint Benedict. But we also know that he used many of the meditation techniques that come out of Buddhism as a way of living fully. He was also a prolific writer not only of religious interpretation, but of poetry. He also kept an ongoing diary.
So for your own devotion and meditation time today, you should stop at some point, as I plan to do, and prepare yourself to be asked the questions “what am I living for?” and “ what is keeping me from living fully for the thing I want to live for?”
Because although you may not be directly asked those questions, the way you live into the answers will be apparent to all meet you.
Prayer
Loving God, we pray that we can come to realize what it is we are living for in service to you. Open our hearts and our minds and our spirits so that we may overcome any of the things that keep us from living fully into the way you would have us live. Amen.
Devotion Author
Weber Baker
Order of Saint Francis and Saint Clare
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