Monday - November 9, 2026
SCRIPTURE
Ephesians 2:8–9
For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.
WORDS OF HOPE
I love sweet surprises! We sure got one this year during our anniversary weekend. We went to Tyler, Texas for a little getaway.
We actually celebrate two anniversaries. Our "real" anniversary is October 5, 1991. It is when we had our Holy Union in our townhouse in Arlington, Texas with only five people. We did not tell a lot of people. Gay "weddings" or Holy Unions were not well accepted in 1991.
We did not dare ask our pastor at our Methodist church where we were members to perform our Holy Union! A friend knew a guy from the "gay church in Dallas!" We NEVER DREAMED in 1991 that OUR marriage could ever be legal! But for us it was real.
Along came 2015 and "gay" marriage became legal! So, we had the wedding of our dreams with almost 400 people at "that gay church" in Dallas where we were members! October 5th was a Monday, so we had this legal wedding on October 3rd, a Saturday. So now we have two anniversaries!
That does not have a lot to do with our surprise in Tyler. It just gives you some background. AND I seldom miss a chance to tell our wonderful story!
On the day between our anniversaries, we went to the Tyler Zoo and then to Texas Roadhouse for dinner. We had a very nice waitress. She was friendly and we could not resist telling her we were in Tyler to celebrate our anniversaries even though East Texas is not always the most accepting place.
We also asked for special lesbian privilege. The WNBA playoffs were going on, and we wanted one of the many TVs to be turned to show the women's game. The head bartender made that happen and then stopped at our table to visit and discuss WNBA. We told him we were season ticket holders for the Dallas Wings. I am not sure we told him we were in town celebrating our anniversaries. He stopped by to visit a couple of times.
When it was time to leave, we told our kind server we were ready for our bill. She informed us that our bill had already been paid! She said by another guest, but I wonder if one or both of our attentive staff were responsible!
I was totally blown away! Talk about unmerited grace! No one had ever done that for us before who did not know us. It just felt like the sweetest gift! We gave our server a very nice tip and told her how grateful we were! And gave her a big hug when we left!
That is how God's love is! Amazing, unexplainable, wonderful love that we do not deserve.
PRAYER
Amazing God, thank you for always giving me your amazing grace and love and for sending unexpected people and moments to remind me that even when our world seem so divided, there are still those all around in the most unexpected places who show us how good life is!
DEVOTION AUTHOR
Jan Nunn, Cathedral of Hope Volunteer
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