Thursday - March 16, 20223
READING
From the Prayer of St. Francis
Grant that we may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand.
WORDS OF HOPE
Lent is the best time of year to take some time to meditate on the meaning of familiar Scriptures of, in today’s reading, the familiar Prayer of St. Francis. Let’s expand these words of prayer:
" O Lord, grant that I share your divine presence in my life to comfort others, rather than always seeking that my relationships comfort me. In this world of conflicting opinions may I seek to listen to others instead of assuming that my viewpoint is the absolute truth”.
In both situations, consoling and understanding others, there is a common truth. If we are to be agents for divine action to help others, we must consider the need of the other individual as more significant than our own immediate needs. When the lifeguard jumps into the water to save a drowning person, he can't expect to be saved by the victim. All attention is focused on the one who is about to lose her life. Likewise, you can't console a person who has suffered loss and disappointment if you lay on them all your problems and seek their support. Focus on the other one and allow God's presence in your life to provide the words of comfort and guidance.
I’m sure we remember the old catchphrase from a few years ago, “Let go and let God…” If you allow God to work through your life, God will be the one which provides holy comfort and consolation to them! In a similar manner of thought, we are asked to be wise listeners rather than immediate dictators of conversations. We live in a world of crosstalk and disinformation; yet we must value the other person.
God values the other individual; we must also value them. And we demonstrate our respect by listening and then politely and simply stating our understanding. In that manner, we demonstrate to the other person that they have value.
PRAYER
O Lord, grant that I share your divine presence in my life to comfort others, rather than always seeking that my relationships comfort me. In this world of conflicting opinions may I seek to listen to others instead of assuming that my viewpoint is the absolute truth. Amen
DEVOTION AUTHOR
Donald (Luke) Day
Order of St. Francis and St. Clare
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